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“I’d been single for ten years and had completely given up on ever meeting my Mr Right. I even used to say to friends, ‘it’s never going to happen to me’. When I met Andrew for our first date, in October 2003, it just felt right and 18 months later, we married.” |
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Monica
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I’m not all that keen on trying to sell myself, but here goes….
I love funny! But do know there is a time and place for everything. I think friendships are extremely important, so an evening with friends is probably where you will find me! Great conversation is essential. Love to cook and try out new recipes in the kitchen.
I’ve never been in a wedding where I wasn’t the Maid of Honor, which I would assume means I’m a pretty good friend to have.
I can be sarcastic, but like to refer to it as quick witted.
I’m close with my family, but if I need to through them under a bus that is also an option!
I love movies on rainy days. From old movies like Brigadoon or Breakfast at Tiffany’s to 80’s flicks like 16 Candles!
I love my job and all that I have learned from it.
It has been an insane year for me and life is just now starting to settle. I’m trying to lead a healthy, happy and productive live and am looking for those same qualities in someone.
Of course, to be understood and truly loved would be fantastic too!!
you can find me at this free dating site
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Jelly
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I am a friendly, easy going person with a 4 year degree looking for someone similar. I grew up in the suburbs in the east bay, went to school at Berkeley and now I'm enjoying the city life whenever I can. I laugh at almost everything. I'm really into music and concerts, and I'm known to randomly bust out a verse or a dance move or two. I'm looking for some good people to go to restaurants, movies and bars with.
you can find me at this free dating site
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Tina
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I am a bubbly, fun loving girl with a wicked sense of humour. I have lots of friends and love going out. I am opinionated and have a strong personality but I dont see that as a bad thing. Im not sure what else I have to say other than im nervous about being on here so no weirdos please :-)
you can find me at this free dating site
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| Thursday, October 12, 2006 |
| Who Should Call After The First Date? |
You had a good date. You enjoyed each other and laughed on jokes. You were both interested in each other and it seemed that both of you wanted to carry forward after the first date. Your date told you that he/she might call you again in a day or two. That call did not come. What should you think about it? What should you do?
Most of us get irritated about the promise that was not kept. We do not know what to do? Whether to wait or forget the date? This is a problem, because you liked the guy/girl and want to further the relationship.
Before you jump to conclusions and get irritated, think about the other person. He/she might have got a problem. Or he/she might be thinking about what is in your mind? He/she may not be sure about how his/her phone call will be responded with and may be hesitant about calling you.
There may be many reasons that are possible. Why not call and find out yourself? Most of you let go many opportunities because somebody did not call back in time. Why not stop thinking negatively and become proactive. Call up and find out. |
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| Body Image And Dating |
Those who are on the dating scene are worried about their body image. Do they look good or not is the question that troubles them. The teenagers are worried about the smallest zit and the young adults about their personality, weight, face, and everything that makes them feel attractive. This tires many of you at times. Why should you think about dating with so many hassles? This is a logical question, because after putting in all the efforts you are not sure of getting a good partner. And every date brings new tensions. What should be done about your body image?
Maintain your body the way you like it. If you like to be overweight, love yourself and are not bothered about your weight, don't reduce it only to get a good partner. You will go back to old ways after some days and then what? Better keep your body image as you love it. If you are short in height, no amount of worrying will increase your height. If you don't look like a celebrity, no amount of plastic surgery can make you one. Are you in this world only to worry about the smallest fault in your body so that you can please someone to go into a long term relationship? Certainly not. That will also be cheating the other person. Let them love you for what you are. |
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| Looking For The Perfect Date |
We have our concept of perfection. We all have our preferences. There are few things, we love and few that we hate. Sometimes, people draw a list of what all they must have in their dating partner. If he is ok in everything, but has bad table manners, he is not for me. She is perfect except that when she laughs, it looks somewhat weird.
Do you also think like this? Then you may never get your perfect date. To avoid falling in this trap, do one thing. Before you reject somebody, ask that person about his/her conception of the perfect partner and find out where all you score on that card. That will open your eyes. You want a perfect partner, but you yourself are not perfect.
Rather than searching for perfection, search for somebody you think will make you feel good and reciprocal. As nobody is perfect on this earth, you have to make compromises. Don't compromise on major issues, but minor ones that can always be ignored. There is no formula for a perfect relationship except deep understanding. Don't search for perfection. Search for an understanding partner. |
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| Success Dating- Be The One To Be Won |
Most of us want to win something. Our mindset is such that we believe that by trying to get something or somebody, we will get it. How about reversing the mindset and seeing the results? Think of yourself as the most desirable object. Think of yourself in positive terms. Don't overdo this.
When you make yourself as the desirable object, you go in to a different mindset. You don't want to win, but you want to be won. You are throwing a challenge to others. Here I am. Let me see who can win me. You will find a new confidence in you and you will also be surprised by the results. People of opposite sex you wanted to date desperately, will request you for one. Make yourself wanted. But as said before, don't overdo it. Don't let people call you a proud person who is not bothered about others. They should think of you as a very desirable person. That is the key. |
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